What is a Bro Pair?

What if your child had a positive male role model they could trust. Someone playful, present, and patient? 🤗 What if your love for working with children could turn into a rewarding path, one where every day makes a difference? 🦸‍♂️

That’s exactly what being — or hiring — a Bro Pair is all about.

Let’s breakdown the definition:
A Bro Pair is a male au pair who provides reliable, structured childcare. They are:

• ✅ Male caregiver aged 18 to 30

• ✅ Supports with school runs, homework, playtime, and daily routines

• ✅ Can live with a host family or work locally

• ✅ Offers structure, safety, and a positive male role model

• ✅ Builds connection through shared interests like sports, games, or outdoor activities

• ✅ Combines cultural exchange with professional childcare support

Whether you’re a family looking for trusted help or a young man ready to step into a meaningful role, Bro Pairs offer real value — for both sides.

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Why Families Are Choosing Bro Pairs

When you’re raising kids, the support you choose matters.
Families aren’t just looking for help — they’re looking for the right energy in their home.

Here’s why so many are choosing Bro Pairs:

💚 1. A Positive Male Presence

For boys, teens, or even girls who benefit from a big-brother-type bond, a Bro Pair can be that grounded, dependable figure — someone to look up to, talk to, and learn from.

They’re often described as calm, consistent, and genuinely fun.

💚 2. Fully Capable & Deeply Caring

Bro Pairs handle the same tasks as female au pairs — from helping with homework and prepping lunchboxes to keeping kids safe and on routine.

✨ Explore our training courses to see how we prepare all our caregivers to succeed.

💚 3. Perfect for Energetic Kids

If your child’s love language is movement — soccer, skateboards, games in the garden — a Bro Pair might be the perfect match. They’ll match that energy while keeping things safe, structured, and constructive.

💚 4. Raising Kids to Break Stereotypes

Having a male caregiver helps kids understand something powerful early on:
Caring isn’t gendered.
It’s human.

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Why Become a Bro Pair?

You want more than just a job — you want purpose.
You want experience that actually matters.
You want to be someone a child remembers for the right reasons.

That’s what being a Bro Pair offers.

💼 1. Experience That Builds Your Future

Whether you’re planning to work with kids long-term — or just want to grow your skills — this role builds:

• Confidence

• Patience

• Communication

• Routine management

• Emotional intelligence

It’s the kind of work that looks amazing on a CV — and even better on your conscience.

🌍 2. Live and Learn Through Culture

As a Bro Pair, you may live with a host family or work locally. Either way, you’ll gain exposure to new ways of life, learn how different families operate, and build relationships across cultures.

💸 3. Earn, Save, and Show Up

Bro Pairs earn competitive salaries. If you’re live-in, your costs are mostly covered — giving you space to save up, study, or just breathe without financial stress.

✨ Check current salary rates

👉 Create your FREE Bro Pair profile and start connecting with the right families.

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But… Isn’t It Weird Having a Male Au Pair?

Let’s talk about it.

1/ “Men aren’t nurturing.”
🟢 Not true.

Nurturing is about presence, empathy, and emotional maturity — things that have nothing to do with gender.

2/ “Families only hire women.”

🟢 That’s changing — fast.
Families are waking up to the fact that the best caregiver is the one who connects, not the one who fits a mould.

3/ “He’ll just kick a ball around.”

🟢 Bro Pairs aren’t babysitters in disguise.
They’re trained, trusted caregivers who know how to create routines, manage conflict, support learning, and care with intention.

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What Do Bro Pairs Earn?

Here’s what Bro Pairs typically earn in South Africa:

✨ View the full salary breakdown

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Is a Bro Pair Right for Your Family?

Still unsure? Start with these questions:

• Does your child need someone calm, positive, and present?

• Would a high-energy, playful caregiver suit your routine?

• Do you have boys or teens who might benefit from a male role model?

• Are you open to creating a more inclusive household?

✨ If you answered yes to any of these, you may have just found your next best decision.
👉 Create Your Family Profile — and let’s find your match.

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Your Next Step: The Meet & Greet

When you’ve found someone who feels like a fit:

• 💬 Schedule a call or video chat

• 👀 Ask about real-life experience with children

• 💡 Consider a trial day if local

• ✨ Look for connection over perfection

✨ Use our family interview questions to guide the conversation
✨ See what Bro Pairs typically do

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FAQs About Bro Pairs

Are Bro Pairs trained like other au pairs?
Yes — we offer full childcare training through our Academy, designed to support both male and female caregivers.

Can I hire a local Bro Pair?
Yes, many Bro Pairs live in your area and work locally, while others may be open to relocating.

Do Bro Pairs live in?
They can either live with you or commute daily — it’s up to you and your needs.

Is this common?
More than you think. And it’s growing.

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Ready to Take the Next Step?

This isn’t just about finding help.
It’s about building relationships. Creating structure. Supporting growth. And choosing care that aligns with your family’s values.

✨ For Families:

Create your FREE Family Profile and start browsing trained Bro Pairs who are ready to support your household.
👉 Create My Family Profile

🦸‍♂️ For Bro Pairs:

Turn your passion into a purpose. Build skills. Earn. Connect. Grow.
👉 Create My Bro Pair Profile

🎖 For Certificates:

Want to stand out?
✨ Explore Our Courses — build trust, boost confidence, and get hired faster.

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The Future of Care is Inclusive.

And Bro Pairs are part of that future.

So whether you’re looking to hire one, become one, or just learn more — know this:

You’re not just filling a gap.
You’re creating impact.

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Let’s make that impact together. 💛

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